| As nice as it would be to call up your ex and suggest | | | | feel, so make sure you look good! Therefore, when |
| giving your relationship another shot, this hardly ever | | | | you are around your mutual friends you should make |
| actually works. Therefore, if you really want your ex | | | | an effort to stay light, well dressed, and not harp on |
| back in your life it may be time to pull out the top | | | | the breakup. Treat them as if they were your ex |
| ten dirty psychological tricks to win back your ex. | | | | and make sure you give off only the best vibes. |
| Hey, that's why the old adage goes: "It's all fair in | | | | Look presentable |
| love and war!" | | | | Eventually you will cross paths with your ex again, |
| Give it time | | | | and when you do make sure you make an |
| Likely when you broke up with your ex, they said it | | | | impression. They were attracted to you once, so |
| was because they needed space or wanted a | | | | make sure they see the person they fell in love with |
| "break." However, most people do not actually | | | | and not the more relaxed person you became as the |
| expect you to completely disappear, so follow their | | | | relationship got comfortable. |
| words and drop out of their life! You may be amazed | | | | Keep on trucking |
| to see them start to make the first move because | | | | It can be easy to lose your lease on life a bit after a |
| they now realize how empty their world is without | | | | breakup, but instead of throwing in the towel keep a |
| you! | | | | smile on your face. Keeping up with all aspects of |
| Avoid every kind of contact- this includes texts, IMs, | | | | your life makes you look well-rounded and shows |
| and phone calls | | | | you are capable of functioning on your own which is |
| In the digital age, it is harder to disappear out of | | | | much more attractive than failure! |
| sight from an ex then it was before. Due to easy | | | | Flirt/Date |
| impersonal forms of communication it may be very | | | | When all else fails, jealousy always works! Showing |
| tempting to simply drop a line or say hello, but you | | | | your ex that you are attractive to others will always |
| cannot do this either! Remember, space means | | | | make you more attractive to them! After all, we all |
| space! If they need a break by all means let them | | | | want what we cannot have! |
| have it! | | | | Practice nonchalance |
| Keep in touch with family | | | | If you do run into your ex, or find it unavoidable that |
| The one set of opinions that most people end up | | | | you will end up together at social functions stay |
| listening too, even if they think they are not, is their | | | | nonchalant around your ex. They likely expect a |
| family's advice. So make sure the family still mentions | | | | basket case, but if you pretend that your relationship |
| you from time to time and you will find you are | | | | never existed they will be more bothered by the |
| always on your ex's mind as they second guess their | | | | fact that they did not have an impact on you! In |
| decision! | | | | order to boost their own hurt egos they will be back |
| Stay positive | | | | sniffing around for clues! |
| Your ex is expecting to hear you trash talk them, | | | | Patience! |
| but only speak positively about them and they are | | | | Even with all the dirty psychological tricks to win your |
| going to get confused. After enough confusion they | | | | ex back you will not win overnight. Be patient and |
| are going to wander why they left such a great | | | | confident that each trick is drawing them closer to |
| person in the first place! | | | | you. The reward for your patience is that after some |
| Use mutual friends | | | | time you will get what you want, and without |
| Mutual friends will be the one to tell your ex how you | | | | sacrificing your dignity to do so! |