| For many men the subject of their wife's weight is | | | | the best way to go about this. Even if you feel you |
| something that they think about every day but are | | | | are in better shape than your wife it may be the |
| too afraid to discuss with their spouse. Telling your | | | | best thing are you to start working out more and |
| wife it's time to lose weight could be grounds for | | | | start your own diet a few weeks or months before |
| divorce if precautions are not taken to lessen the | | | | you bring up your wife's weight loss with her. Too |
| blow of the comment. But really when you think | | | | many men want their wives to lose weight but don't |
| about it, is it that big of a deal to ask your wife to | | | | consider the fact that they are out of shape them |
| lose some weight? You love your spouse and you | | | | selves. |
| want her to be as fit and healthy and happy as | | | | It's important that you bring this up with your wife |
| possible; the big question is how do you get your | | | | has a plan and something that you can both do |
| wife to lose weight without being hurtful and | | | | together. Offer to start doing romantic walks in the |
| belittling? | | | | evening or running together in the mornings. If you |
| The first thing you want to consider when telling | | | | haven't joined a gym maybe you can ask for what |
| your wife it's time to lose some weight is the timing | | | | she thinks about joining a gym together and starting |
| of bringing up the subject. You'll want to pick a time | | | | to work out together at the gym. Bring it up once |
| that is relaxed and when you are both unoccupied. | | | | and then don't continue to harp on it, if you keep |
| Certainly do not pick a time when you are both | | | | telling your wife that she needs to lose weight she |
| eating or when she is wearing an outfit that she is | | | | will actually start to resent you and possibly gain |
| already insecure about. | | | | weight because she is encouraged to be eating |
| Make sure that when you bring up the subject of | | | | behind your back. |
| weight loss with your wife you approach it from the | | | | When your wife does start to make progress in |
| standpoint of health even if your end goal is to have | | | | weight loss make sure you let her know what a |
| your wife looking as good as possible you want to | | | | great job she is doing and how good she is looking. |
| let her know that you're concerned about her health | | | | Reward her with something nice like jewelry. Sure |
| and that you want her to be as healthy as possible, | | | | she is going to get new clothes as for weight loss |
| looking good is just an added bonus. Make sure she | | | | continues to make sure that she gets other nice |
| knows that you love her no matter how big she is or | | | | incentives outside of the new outfits. If she needs to |
| what her size is but you want her to be as healthy | | | | buy a new pair of pants you are weight loss offered |
| and happy as possible. | | | | to take her out to buy some matching shoes to go |
| Before you bring the subject up with her think about | | | | with the pants. |
| what you may be doing to contribute to her weight | | | | Focus on the weight she has already lost not the |
| problems. Are you the one that is buying steaks at | | | | weight she has yet to lose nothing is more |
| the grocery store? Do you suggest that you go out | | | | discouraging than hearing somebody say "hey you've |
| to eat often as a recreational activity? Are you in | | | | lost 10 pounds only 50 more to go!" Tell her she |
| good shape? If you are out of shape and want your | | | | looks great in every day she seems to be looking |
| wife to lose some weight being a hypocrite is not | | | | better and better! |