Wedding Music - A Bride's Guide to Wedding Music Selection

As you plan your wedding, you may begin to wonderinstrumental postlude as the guests depart, such as
what musical pieces you will need for the ceremonyKenny G’s The Wedding Song.
and reception. In contemporary American weddingAfter the ceremony, most couples will celebrate with
ceremonies, there are standard periods of time inloved ones at their reception. The reception
which you will need to select music for. The musictraditionally, also has standard dances in which you will
you select will provide the ambience for your guestsneed to select music for. Conventionally, the wedding
and will set the tone for your entire wedding day. Itparty enters the reception area first, with the emcee
is imperative you select pieces that reflects yourannouncing their names and titles. During this time,
personal style and taste, and will create anbackground music is played. After the wedding party
atmosphere that you wish to embody for yourhas been announced, it is tradition to open the
special day. Although organ music is standard, manyreception party with the newlywed’s first
brides are choosing to have harpists or stringdance, followed by dancing with each other’s
quartets to replace the traditional standard.in-laws. There may also be a father-daughter dance
Wedding ceremony music is used to announce andand a mother-son dance.
accompany a specific order of events. Typically, theThe bride and groom should discuss with the selected
ceremony begins with twenty to thirty minutes ofDJ or band, the style of music they wish to have
prelude music. Usually this prelude music is meditativeplayed during the meal and any special requests of
and soothing. This music fills the ceremony spacefavorite songs to play. Sometime during the end of
with tranquility as guests begin to slowly enter. Somethe reception, the cake cutting ceremony will require
examples of popular prelude music include:background music. You will need to also discuss with
Bach’s, Jesu, Joy Of Man’s Desiring oryour musicians what to play.
Cantata 147, Beethoven’s Fur Elise, orIf you are having difficulty deciding on which songs
Ackerman’s Prelude to the Bridal Suite.to play during your wedding, discuss this not only
After your guests have arrived, the time has arrivedwith your fiancé but also with family, friends
to begin the ceremony. It is customary to have theand the DJ or band. The musicians you have selected
ushers accompany the mothers and grandmotherswill be able to offer you insight on which songs are
down the aisle at this time. Generally, there is specialappropriate, which songs are most popular, and offer
music for this procession and seating. Some commonsome suggestions to you.
music pieces for this is Canon_in_D, by JohannRemember though, this is your day, and if a certain
Pachelbel or Brandenburg Concerto No. 1 in F 1st bysong is meaningful to you, then you should include it
Bach.in your ceremony – even if it is different from
Once the mother of the bride assumes her seatingthe norm.
position, the processional begins with the bridesmaids,In summary, here is a list of musical pieces you will
followed by the maid of honor, the flower girl andneed to select for your wedding:
ring bearer, and finally the bride accompanied by herCeremony Music:
father or other figure who is giving the bride away.
For over one hundred years, the traditional wedding1. Prelude Music
march has been Wagner's Bridal Chorus from2. Processional music for the mothers and
Lohengrin, often called Here Comes The Bride.grandmothers
However, other processional marches have been3. Processional music for the groomsmen &
used including, Jeremiah Clarke's Trumpet Voluntary,clergy (if walking down the aisle)
and Water Music (Suite #1) by Handle.4. Processional music for the wedding party &
After the procession, depending on your particularbride
ceremony, you may need to select ceremony music5. Recessional
or hymnal music, a solo or a short piece for the6. Postlude And if needed, Interlude Music:
lighting of the Unity Candle, and/or communion music.1. Ceremony / hymnal music
At the end of your service you will also need to2. Unity Candle music
select a recessional piece, to march down the aisle as3. Communion music
husband and wife. Usually, the recessional music isReception Music:
lively and exciting. Some examples of commonly used1. Background Music to announce bridal party
recessional pieces include: Mendelssohn's Wedding2. First Dance
March from A Midsummer Night's Dream . Another3. In-Law Dance
popular choice is Widor's Toccata from Symphony4. Father/Daughter & Mother/Son Dance
No. 5 and The Carpenter’s We’ve Only5.
Just Begun. The ceremony then concludes with an